Freedom from Pornography, Lust and Masturbation is possible - the Purity Coach is Here to Help!

Victory is possible ... believe me, I know. I was addicted to pornography and masturbation for over 30 years of my life, but God has set me free! This website and The Purity Coach are here to show you how you too can be free from the pull of porn and the lure of lust.

Our Point of Purity Program equips and trains you in how to overcome porn addiction in as little as 90 days!

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2016 Staggering Statistics on Pornography:

source: Proven Men Porn Survey (conducted by Barna Group), located at

% of Christian Men Who Have Viewed Porn


% of Christan Men Who Admit to Viewing Porn Monthly


% of Pastors Who Have Viewed Porn


# of Google Searches per second for porn is over


You don't have to be a statistic! The Point of Purity Program can help you discover how to be free from the pull of pornography, lust and masturbation!

We Offer Some Great Resources to Help with Sexual Purity

Here are just three. For a complete list be sure to select "Resources" in the menu above.

Point of Purity

An intense, proven one-on-one program geared to equip and train you in how to overcome porn addiction in as little as 90 to 180 days!

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My Purity Coach

This FREE App is available for IOS, Android and Windows. It works across all mobile devices and is a great tool to help you take captive your thoughts!

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Internet Accountability

Pornography is easily accessible - be it through your desktop, laptop, tablet or smart phone. Covenant Eyes is a great tool for helping you stay pure online.

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About The Purity Coach

The Purity Coach is a ministry focused on helping men develop the Biblical skills necessary to defeat lust, pornography and masturbation (self-gratification) - in short: to be sexually pure.

Our Mission: To Equip and Train Men to Overcome Porn Addiction in as Little as 90-180 Days!

A Testimony of God's Grace

Steve Etner - The Purity Coach - with his amazing wife Heather

2 Corinthians 1:4 says that God is the “God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.”

Although Heather and I do NOT have the picture perfect marriage, we have learned to go to God with our problems because the Word of God has the answers for every situation in life. Oh, we still struggle thru our sinfulness. But we rejoice in what God is doing in our lives, and in the privilege of comforting others with the comfort we received from God. 

I (Steve) consider it an honor and deep privilege to come alongside of men as they struggle with lust, pornography and masturbation and fight along with them through the battle. Through our proven Point of Purity program, I equip and train men in how to defeat this powerful beast. And Heather considers it a blessing to work with wives who are facing their own battles of anger, fear, worry, doubt and frustration over their husband's addiction.

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No matter what sin issues you may be battling with, no matter where you may be in your walk with God, or in your marriage relationship - don’t give up hope, don’t quit, don’t allow discouragement to defeat you. God has a perfect plan for your life. God is at work – even now – molding you into the Christ-follower He wants you to be. Stop fighting Him, stop trying to take over the process, and trust Him with EVERYTHING.

Lay it on the altar and surrender it to God. Then open your Bible and read, study, mediate and memorize it. Let God’s truth saturate your mind and fill your heart, and as Romans 13:14 challenges us “don’t even think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.”  Rather, as Romans 12:2 commands, allow God to transform you as you renew mind.

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The Purity Coach is a part of Pure Man Ministry, and is committed to helping men develop the Biblical skills necessary to defeat lust, pornography and masturbation (self-gratification) - in short: to become hungry to live in purity, passionate for God's Word, and aware of the practical answers from Scripture that make it all possible.

Our Mission: To equip and train men to overcome porn addiction in as little as 90-180 days! Visit our Point of Purity Program to learn more.

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The goal of every Christian should be to glorify God in everything we think, say and do (1 Cor. 10:31; Col. 3:17). However, many also find an intense conflict within as they battle daily with the temptation to magnify self instead (Rom. 7:15-25). Since the primary battleground is our mind (2 Cor. 11:3), Steve Etner speaking to men on sexual purity, porn addiction and masturbationSatan knows that if he can impress our thinking, he will impact our living (Prov. 27:19 cp. Prov. 23:7 KJV). Only God can help us overcome that (Prov. 119:9; 2 Pet. 1:3). This is the primary focus of The Pure Man Ministry/The Purity Coach.

No matter if it's keynoting at your conference, conducting a workshop, interacting with men at a retreat, or speaking at a men's breakfast, Steve will always take men into the Word of God to learn how to take captive their thoughts (1 Cor. 10:5) and make them obedient to Christ - resulting in a life that glorifies God in every thought, word and deed.

This is war, and we will know true victory as we stand side-by-side, shoulder to shoulder, back to back, encouraging one another as together we pursue purity for Christ!

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