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What is the purpose of your life—why are you alive right now? The fact is, as a child of God, the life you’re living is not your life. This isn’t about you. Contrary to popular opinion, you aren’t here on this planet for your own personal pleasure and satisfaction. God gifted you with life so that you could live it for Him and for His glory. All of it. Every bit of it. All the time.
So—be honest now—how are you doing with that?
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In this Episode we see that God gifted you with life so that you could live it for Him and for His glory. All of it. Every bit of it. All the time. So, how are you doing with that?
Why is it so important that God is in charge of every facet of my life? Why is it so difficult to always let go and let God be the final authority over my life? I’ve got a News Flash for you: This life isn’t about YOU. It never was and it never will be. Ok, I know, not actually a “News Flash” but we do tend to try to make it all about us don’t we!
To win our battle against sexual impurity, we must grasp the vital necessity of growing in our relationship with God. As you apply God’s truth to your life, as you walk in obedience to God’s standards, you will be wise—you will be free!
In this Episode we take a look at Psalm 19 and discover the singular, most powerful weapon God has provided us with that is guaranteed to take down the beast of sexual impurity in your life. Namely: The Word of God.
Just as we need a solid foundation in order to build a solid structure, so we need to build a morally pure life on a spiritually solid foundation. The bottom line is simple, if you expect to stay standing in the midst of the storms of sexual temptation that constantly bombard you on every front, you need to be planted firmly on a foundation that will not fail—one that runs deep into solid rock.
Proverbs 3:5-6 commands you to “trust in the Lord with all your heart.” Proverbs 4:23 commands, “Above all else, guard your heart!” So, how are you doing with that? Are you guarding your heart? Are you trusting in Him completely?
God is calling each and every one of us to put all of our attention upon Him. He knows what’s best for your heart. He knows what will make you spiritually healthy and help you grow, and He has prepared a special meal just for you! We need to open our Bible every day for the rest of our lives and feed upon every word that comes from God’s mouth.
As a Christian you have been given a new heart. Now you must “above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. In this episode we dive into God’s Word to discover how to prevent a Spiritual Heart Attack.
We can’t fight this battle for purity on our own. To win this war, we must be in God’s Word every day studying it, memorizing it, meditating on it, and obeying it. Only through Him, only through His might can we stop, once-and-for-all, the rampaging beast of sexual immorality that is running amok in our heart.
It is vital for your integrity, it is critical for your purity, it is a necessity for your godliness that you remain faithful and true to God! That you stay focused!
Your spiritual foe wants to devour you, to consume every part of your life with selfishness, King Me worship, and darkness. This is why you must be firm in your faith, resolved to daily deny and die to self - committed to living every moment of every day only for God. You must resist the enemy every inch of the way. This is war!
When I state with confidence that the Lord IS my stronghold, I am boldly declaring that the enemy cannot touch me because I am - right here and right now - totally safe and completely secure within the protection of that stronghold.
The almighty, unchanging, all powerful, creator of the universe – God Himself - cares about you! As hard as that may be to grasp, the fact is: God loves you with an everlasting love and He demonstrated that love for you at the Cross of Calvary.
Lot was a man whom God called “righteous” ... yet he was also a man who lived a life that was characterized as anything but righteous. What lessons can we, what lessons must we learn from Lot’s lousy legacy so that we don’t repeat the same mistakes as he did?
What is the focus of your mind? What thoughts do you entertain? What you think about will influence what you do. Are the daily choices you are making in life for the benefit of King Me or for the glory of God?
Whenever you are facing temptation, any temptation, remember you always have a choice. At each and every point of decision you will choose either King Me or God. And with each choice there are always consequences.
My friend, if you are thirsty for genuine and lasting victory over sexual impurity in your life, if you are thirsty for freedom over porn, lust, and masturbation, if you are thirsty for a deep connection and growing relationship with your Creator and Savior of your soul – then come to the water. Come to Christ who is THE living water. Open your Bible daily and let it cleanse your mind, wash your heart, and refresh your soul!
Would you like to know how to escape the temptation trap and effectively say “No!” to Lust, Porn and Masturbation? Do you desire to avoid the snare altogether and stop giving in to the beast? Would you like to know how to live completely and unreservedly for God? Do you long for the time when you never have to lie to cover up your sin? Then you’ve come to the right place my friend.
It is vital to your victory in this battle for purity that you fully comprehend that God always was, is, and ever will be all about His glory. Not yours, not mine, His – always His. He does all that He does because that's who He is.
But the question looms - why? Why would a holy, just, and righteous God choose to save a sinful, selfish, wicked person such as me?
God's Word teaches us how to live for Him. It is God’s Word that is perfect, it is God’s Word that revives the soul and makes us wise. It’s God’s Word that is right, rejoicing the heart ... and it’s pure, enlightening the eyes. It is not only when you read God’s Word but actually do God’s Word that there is great reward.
In this episode, we are going to look at Psalm 25:8-11 and discover how God’s Word equips you with everything you need to be pure!
In this episode, we are going to look at Psalm 25:7. God’s love for you is steadfast. His amazing love for you stands true forever – in spite of your sinful choices.
God’s love for you is not dependent upon your purity. It is not contingent upon your right behavior. His love endures your sin. His love endures your fickleness and your selfishness. His steadfast love endures ... not just for a time but forever!
Lust and porn will always give you bad counsel. They say, “Come, let us satisfy your need! Let us lead you to wonderful, forbidden pleasures that will make all your problems go away. Indulge. Play, have fun, it’s not like you’re doing anything wrong!
We need God to guide us as we open His Word and navigate through His principles and precepts of purity. Who better to be your personal guide than the One who designed and created you?
Shame comes when you turn away from God in favor of worshiping a false god. Shame comes when you choose to disobey God's commands - going against His will in favor of the whims and wishes of King Me.
In today's episode we discuss "The Shame of Sexual Sin" and how to be free from experiencing that shame by living in victory over lust, porn addiction, and masturbation!
Scripture is clear, we are to trust God. However, trusting God is far more than just believing in Him for your salvation. “Trust” in the Scriptures refers to having a bold confidence resulting in a sense of total security, surety and peace. It’s “placing all your eggs into one basket,” a basket that someone else is holding. It’s “putting all your weight” upon God with the firm conviction and assurance that He will not ever fail you.
What is the “benefit” your soul gets when you choose to give in to the sinful, selfish desires of the flesh? What is the “benefit” your soul gets from choosing daily to deny what your flesh wants and instead fully surrender your heart to God?
Only your flesh “benefits” , not your soul. Any “gain” (if you want to call it that) is temporary, short-lived, and eternally worthless.
Have you ever felt like God is angry at you for your sin, disappointed in you for your weaknesses, and punishing you for your repeated sinful choices? Has it felt like God’s left you all alone to fight the beast by yourself.
Hebrews 13:6 tells us that “We can confidently say, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not fear.” You can have confidence that when you cry out to God, He will hear you.
You are daily engaged in spiritual warfare. You are on the front lines in this battle for sexual purity and you desperately need to know how to fight this war. You need the combat training that only God can give. You cannot afford to NOT be prepared!
In today’s episode we begin a mini-series in which we will be studying Psalm 25 – a powerful text of Scripture that will help you be the person of purity you long to be.
Building a life of sexual purity doesn’t happen overnight, and like any building project – you must daily choose to use the right tools for the task. In Episode 9 we going to talk about your choices and the consequences that follow. Specifically, how to make the right choices. Choices that will not only glorify God – but lead you to living in freedom and victory over the 3-headed dragon of lust, porn and masturbation.
Choose to do what is right and you will be blessed. Choose to do what is wrong and you will suffer the penalty of your sinful, selfish choice.
In this episode, we are going to talk about choosing sexual purity – it’s entirely up to you. When facing the temptation to lust, to look at porn, to fantasize sexually, to masturbate, Remember This: you have a choice. You always have a choice.
Do you desire to please God with your life? Do you also struggle with sinful thoughts and habits? There’s a conflict going on there, right? On the one hand there’s a desire to please God. Yet on the other there’s a strong desire to please self.
In this week's episode we will discover how to successfully and victoriously resist the devil as we learn how to submit to God (James 4:7).
Choose to lust, look at porn, masturbate; choose to worship King Me, run after another god instead of the true God and you will experience the absence of genuine joy and perfect peace. You will know nothing but sorrow and sadness. That’s a fact of Scripture, and a painful reality of life.
In this episode we will discover from Scripture how to make the right choices and experience the peace, joy, happiness, and genuine satisfaction that only God can give.
As you well know from your own personal experience, this journey to purity can be difficult and even a bit challenging at times. You find yourself doing things you’re not used to doing. You are trying to give up things that don’t want to be abandoned. There are moments where you may be tempted to just quit altogether. You find yourself wanting to give up and give in once-and-for-all to the overwhelming and relentless temptations that have been hounding you for months – maybe even years. I know, I’ve been there.
Why do you look at porn? Why do you lust? Why do you masturbate? Why are you choosing to sin? You do what you do because in your heart you want what you want.
In today’s Point of Purity Podcast, we are going to talk about the motivation of your heart. Man looks on the outward appearance, but God is looking at your heart (1 Samuel 16:7) Join us as we discover the real motivation of your heart, and how to always make the right choices.
As we work our way through today’s podcast, you will see that God is sufficient for ALL of your needs and desires; and that He alone will do what porn and masturbation, lust and selfishness can never do - namely, fill you with pure joy and real, lasting satisfaction.
God's love for you, and the grace He gives you is grander than anything you can possibly imagine! So let’s dive in to Episode 3!